Sometimes tough decisions just come our way - perhaps involving a loved one or making a move that will change your life’s direction. At these times, the best decision for you may not be clear. And there may be good reasons your family and friends can only take you so far. It can be tempting to just do nothing! Yet doing nothing will only lead to someone else making your decision for you.
There are many ways to unravel sticky problems, one thread at a time. So begin to take action today. For instance, write a longhand a list of pros and cons. Take a little time away from the problem alone in order to clear your head. Consider the benefits of intentional contemplation and meditation. Talk to people who are not involved in the situation that you trust have your interest in mind. A mentor, therapist or spiritual advisor may be of use at this time.
It takes courage to admit that despite your best efforts, you are not sure what steps to take. However, acknowledging you are confused means you have already taken the first and hardest step toward clarity.